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HELP,,HELP,,HELP,,,PLEASE HELP US. I HAVE SIX KIDS AND A DISABLED HUSBAND, PLEASE

hey everyone, if you know my story then i have good news to report and some bad news. the good news is that my FI was approved ( which is the check that you get with your food stamps ). And the disability rep that we have been working with told us that we will get our approval by the 22nd of July. She had everything that she needed and that it would take a week to get the approval to me. All that is good news but the bad news is that on July 14th our light will be cut off. I was looking for the FI check to pay for our light bill but I will not have the card until 7 to 10 days from now. I will $445.21 to pay the light company by tomorrow by the end of business. You don't have to pay it to me you can pay it to the light company. I am two months behind on my rent and someone was going to help us but they never did. I do have a school check that will be here around the first week of Aug so it could be a loan. I have 6 kids and I take care of my husband all day. I just need help please. Please anyone help me with this. If my lights get cut off then all the food that i just got for the kids will go bad and then i can't feed the kids. PLEASE HELP US.
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A disabled husband six children and a wife with all the weight of the family on her shoulders, NEED HELP

Hello to everyone, my name is Sadie S. Comas and I live in Sumter SC. I am making a wish for my family. We wish for help with our wastewater bill of $221.60 and July rent for $800.00 be granted . It has been hard for our family the past 4 years. My husband was in a car accident in November 13, 2007 in Atlanta Ga. His truck flipped over 8 times and he died. By the grace of God the medical people brought my husband back however this went on a few times. My husband was in the hospital and had lost all his memory. He did not know anything. Over the 3 days he would get some memory back and then loss it again. On the 3rd day he got the memory back and they let him go from the hospital. Once we left I notice that he did not remember everything. Well long story short he never got all of his memory back and now he has brain seizures and when he has a brain seizures he loss memory. He has not been able to work and everything has been on me from that point on. Now I have been keeping us above water but now I can feel the weight of things pulling me down. I can't leave out that we have 6 children and I have to take care of all 6 of them. Isaiah 15, Nick 14, Jemery 13, India 9, Jasmine 6, Little Tony 3. I still try my best to give them a great life and to help them be the best they can. I have to get ready for cars and school. I tried to put them in summer camps overnight but was not able to do so. They understand. I am now trying to go to school for medical billing and coding. That way I can work and stay home with my husband. His seizures are getting worst and it is coming to where he will loss all memory or just go into a cumma. I got some money from a friend to pay for school but I really need help to pay for our rent for $800.00 July month and our wastewater bill for $221.60. I also have my 3 year old here at home with me. He was in ICU and dies a month after on (Dec 14, 2007) his dad and the medical people brought him back with Gods help. They did not know if he would make it. Like I said I just feel like it is all coming down on me and some times I feel like I can't do this. I don't have a choose. I have to be here for my husband and children. I don't want a hand out I can pay you back I just need help so that my family will be ok for right now while I am in school. This way I can take care of them. I thank you for the help and if you can't I thank you any way. I am just glad I can tell my story. I have been thinking about writing a book about this. It is a lot more I just can't say it here. Thanks
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I know how you feel. My husband was the bread winner of our family and he was in a car accident and now he has memory loss and brain seizures. I have six kids that I have to take care of. I am not sure how I will do it day by day but I have to find it in myself to keep going. If you end your life you wife will get the insurance money and the little girl even if she does not want her. And what life will that be for her. You have to pull deep and find a way to keep going. I know that it is hard and it seems like the hell will never end but go in her room and look in her face and see why you have to keep going. I am not sure what state you live in but I go the tree of wish and they seem to have people on there that will help. Take one day at a time and look at it like this because she is 3 years old she does not know the lights are off if you turn it into a game. Can you go live with your mom. I wish that things work out.
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